Consent Dojo 17: Ley David Elliette Cray, PhD


For this 17th edition of the Consent Dojo, Midori is joined by sex counselor, mindfulness coach, and philosophical consultant, Ley David Elliette Cray, PhD.

Join them for a theoretical and quite practical discussion of solo play as self-care, with explorations of ideas ranging from self-consent and self-negotiation to tips and suggestions for solo D/s scenarios.

Topics will include…

  • Autosadomasochism, self-consent, and emotional health
  • Is Consent the Line Between Self-Help and Self-Harm?
  • How to avoid violating your own consent during solo play
  • Consent in Solo D/s — how does that work?

**Bring your curiosity and questions for Q + A after the conversation!**

Style: Conversation + Q&A
Props: Bring note-taking tools
Duration: 60-90 minutes

Consent Dojo is always free.
Join us Live on Zoom followed by Q & A or watch the replays on YouTube.

Register for the Live Webinar:


Ley David Elliette Cray, PhD (she/they) is a sex counselor, mindfulness coach, philosophical consultant, therapeutic game master, and trauma-informed yoga instructor offering integrative services through her private practice, Transentience Coaching. In addition to maintaining an internationally recognized scholarly profile, she also facilitates Trans Yoga, Queer Mindfulness, Mindfulness for Sexual Health, and other specialized classes. Ley is currently based in Las Cruces, New Mexico, where she watches a lot of horror movies with her cats.


Instagram: @Transentience.coaching
Patreon: @Transentience



Consent Dojo is an ongoing project created by Midori where she sits down with a special guest to discuss different aspects of consent, how communication can affect and enhance our relationships, and how consent transcends the interpersonal world and builds more resilient communities and organizations.

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Oct 04 2022


5:00 PM - 6:30 PM


Online - Zoom
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