November 15, 2002

Newsletter November 15, 2002

Table of contents:
· 11/29 - 12/01 Weekend of Classes in Kentucky

• 12/6 Guest Lecturer on "Terror" & "Rebuilding After a D/s Relationship"
• 12/01 Cool party in SF

Dear Readers...

Just a quickie little newsletter dashed out... because there are some interested classes coming up that I want to make sure to get info out on...

I'm just back from an exciting few days in LA where I attended the US premier of "007 Die Another Day", partied, visited with friends, jogged the Santa Monica beach barefoot and bathed in the warm sun - I had a great time!
Now I'm up laaaate, playing catch-up and getting ready for tomorrow.
It's going to be a full day of photo shoot for my upcoming bondage web site,

I'm shooting Sinnamon Love tomorrow... Ms. B on Saturday and Chanta Rose on Monday. Friday's shoot is followed by a presentation to the San Francisco women's SM club, The Exiles on Erotic Humiliation Play... A full day!

Because I'm so pressed for time tonight, I am not able to write out my full report on the rest of my recent adventures... I promise to get the scoop to you soon. I can't wait to tell you about London, Copenhagen, Bangkok, etc!

Thanks to those of you who told me how much they enjoyed the steamy report from the last edition! I hope to have more of those.

BTW, if you have general questions you want to ask me or want to visit with other fellow readers and students from all over the world, please feel free to stop by my little Yahoo Group. It's a sort of my virtual salon - quality people and quality conversation about kink.

Also... I'm using a new newsletter distribution program... I hope it's user friendly. Let me know if you have any problems.




November 29 to December 1
Join in a weekend of excellent SM education in an intimate, small group setting set in the beautiful countryside with play parties and camaraderie over meals.
To register or for info send e-mail to:
The classes are:
Aural Sex: Seduction by Voice and Fantasy Story Telling
Rope Bondage 1: Hot Useful Basics Ties for Everyone + Shibari: Japanese style
Rope Bondage 2: Sex Bondage, Pain Bondage, and Predicaments
Taking More & Flying Higher: Eroticizing Pain
Make 'em Blush, Make 'em Squirm: Erotic Humiliation Play
Payment must be in the form of a US Postal Money Order.
Registrations for over 11 hours of classes, plus meals, 2 play parties and social time is $125.00. (That's less than $11.50 per hour of top notch kink schooling!)

Schedule: All times are Central Time:
Friday, November 29
5:00 PM Doors open... Social time!
7:00 PM Class 1: "Aural Sex: Seduction by Voice and Fantasy Story Telling"
10:00 PM Dungeon open. Play time. Social time. Book signing, etc.
2 AM the dungeon will be closed
Saturday, November 30
Around 9:00 AM Class 2: "Rope Bondage 1: Hot Useful Basics Ties for Everyone + Shibari: Japanese style"
12:00 Noon a light prepared lunch will be available
1:30 PM Class 3: "Rope Bondage 2: Sex Bondage, Pain Bondage, Predicaments"
5:00 PM dinner will be served
6:30 PM Class 4: "Taking More & Flying Higher: Eroticizing Pain"
9:00 PM Dungeon open. Play time. Social time. Book signing, etc.
3:00 AM the dungeon will be closed
Sunday, December 1
Around 10:00 AM Class 5: "Make 'em Blush, Make 'em Squirm: Erotic Humiliation Play"
1:00 PM the last class ends
In addition to the Sat. light lunch and dinner, coffee, limited other beverages and light snacks will be provided. Attendees who can, are invited to bring (for 'pot luck') snacks, main dishes and beverages making the variety even better!
Motel info (all are 15 to 20 minutes away) will be included with the registration form (attachment) and detail e-mail. You can request the registration forms via e-mail. The completed registration form and signed release for each attendee plus payment in the form of a postal money order must be mailed. Upon receipt of completed paperwork and postal money order we will e-mail you a confirmation.
'The Farm' is a private residence. It is NOT a commercial facility. 'The Farm' is located in south central KY, 120 miles from Lexington & Louisville, KY as well as 120 miles from Knoxville & Nashville, TN.
If you have any questions by all means feel free to e-mail


December 6 & December 8
Two excellent classes by guest presenter, Peggy, a.k.a. O.

Class 1:
Friday, December 6 at QSM
"Terror and the Unkown"
"Heart racing ... adrenaline pumping ... every sound heard crystal clear as time slows down. The painful knowledge of uncertainty. Terror evokes all these things. Fear is a passionate emotion, a primal emotion. Fear is a tool. In a controlled space, the fine line between fear and passion becomes blurred.
Learning to control fears and cross over the threshold to passion is an art. Terror is an individual experience - no one responds the same way. The intimacy created when holding the emotions of your partner can be intense. This class will teach you how to negotiate a terror scene without losing the element of surprise, the basic psychological mechanics behind creating terror and the emotional monitoring and aftercare needed to create an intense experience for both Top and bottom."
Sliding Scale: $20 to $10. Doors open 7:00 PM. Class 7:30-10:00 PM.
For more info go to QSM at
Or call 415-550-7776 or 800-537-5815


Class 2:
Sunday, December 8 sponsored by Fire Horse Productions
"Rebuilding After a D/s Relationship"
"This is a class for both dominants and submissives. When a D/s relationship ends, both doms and subs can feel purposeless and lost.
A sub has the challenge of reshifting their primary focus from someone else to themselves and assuming decision-making responsibilities that may be new.
A dominant has the challenge of rethinking their decision making process with a refocus on their own priorities without the mitigating presence of another to consider.
This class will talk about the grieving process and outline effective coping methods and ideas on how to restructure one's life without encountering pitfalls such as rebound relationships."
Cost $20. Doors open 1pm to 1:30pm. Class 1:30pm to 3:30pm
Location: 848 Community Space, 848 Divisadero Street San Francisco, CA 94117-1506 (near Fulton Street)
For more info email

Peggy a.k.a. O has been in the lifestyle for about nine years, six of which have been spent in M/s relationships. She identifies as a bisexual switch. Currently she lives in South Florida where she runs Dykes 'n Dolls, a women's BDSM education group. She has presented workshops at numerous leather events, including Black Rose, TES 30, Thunder in the Mountains and GMSMA Leatherfest. She has also been on the boards of the Lesbian Sex Mafia and the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. Her perspectives on relationships have always been tempered with a sense of humor, a healthy dose of irreverence and a large helping of common sense.


Madame S/Mr S Leather, Spectator Magazine/, and welcomes you to come and party at "Players & Players: A Celebration of Sex in San Francisco."

(Text from their press release.)
"We want this to be the sort of sex-positive and sexed-up event that helps bring together all the individual communities within the Bay Area: Straight, gay, bi, transsexual, fetish kinkster, BDSM player, or comfortable old vanilla. From stripper to escort, from pro-domme to rentboy, from house mom to mack daddy, from madam to madame: this is your chance to have the kind of wild, only-in-San-Francisco night we all moved to the Bay Area to experience.
Be a part of it! We want you there dressed in your coolest tribute to the tireless laborers of the local adult industry. Appropriately inappropriate attire is strongly encouraged -- fetish gear, stripper style, pimp threads, ho' clothes, leather, latex, lace, electrical tape: If it makes you feel sexy, show it off! This is not a play party -- It's a sexy, kinky extravaganza!

When & Where : Sunday, December 1 at San Francisco's DNA Lounge, 375 Eleventh Street. From 9:00 pm until afterhours.
(Unfortunately, all you pretty young things, it's 21 and over, with ID,only!)

Turntable talent :'s DJ Spesh (from Jondi & Spesh), 10pm - 3am (with an hour intermission at 11pm for theatrical performances on the main stage) and DJ gEoff (Stargaze), 9 - 10:pm

Stage shows
Fetish fashion from Madame S and Dark Garden
Erotic dance by Vanessa, "Miss Nude San Francisco 2002," with Whisper, first runner-up
Latin dance from Arianna Avila, TS dance performer, and troupe

Closing event : First-ever "S.F. Players' and Scenesters' Walk" Players and partyers of the audience get a chance to strut their stuff before an audience of admiring pervs.

Emcees: Paul Nathan & Selina Raven

The Fine Print : While we can't afford to throw a party for 500 of our closest friends, tickets are only $20 in advance. Or $25 at the door. . . in the highly unlikely event it doesn't sell out.

"Players & Players" tickets are available at the Spectator offices, 5835 Doyle St., #103, Emeryville,
Madame S Leather, 321 Seventh St. SF (Wed-Sun noon-7pm)
Mr. S Leather, 310 Seventh St. SF (everyday 11am-7pm)
... and while you're there, pick up something fabulous to wear.

Don't have time to stop by?
Tickets are also available online at

We hope we'll see you there!

Spectator Magazine
Mr. S Leather
Madame S Leather


Wishing you a delightful pervy time